A note from Down Under

by Lisa

In Australia, at my parent’s house. Finally, more than a week after landing, this trip is starting to make sense.

Prior to now there was just being squished into my seat on a full plane next to scruffy teen headed to Thailand for a surfing holiday who clearly relished my son’s wiggling and screaming for most of the 1.5 hour flight (almost as much as he relished the fact that during the five minutes when Dominic actually got quiet – 20 minutes before landing and right after they put the fasten seatbelt sign on – Baby Ratbag deposited a giant poo in his diaper).

And then there was almost missing the flight to Sydney because of the delay landing from Vientiane, and a loooooong powerwalk through Bangkok airport carrying smelly Baby Ratbag and dragging my hand luggage.

And then a broken change table, resulting in an ignominious and messy diaper change on the tiled floor of the gate lounge.

And a sick, teething, over-stimulated and overwhelmed baby who woke up screaming about every 1.5 hours the first five nights we were here, even when he was sharing my bed.

And a sick mama.

I could go on, but I won’t. Suffice to say I’ve been delighted to cross paths with a couple of friends in Sydney and Canberra and I’m grateful to my parents and some aunts and uncles who facilitated the logistics of the front end of the trip. But …

Oh. My. Word.

People. Traveling with a baby is Hard. Work.

But now we have traveled. And we are here. And it’s cool and quiet. The African Tulip trees are blooming in a scarlet riot. Wallabies keep invading the yard and I carry Dominic over to the window or out on the lawn to watch them hop around. He points and looks confused and giggles, which I understand because, really, they are perfectly ridiculous animals. I listen to Dominic shriek with laughter while he’s playing with my parents and being here makes more sense.

Tomorrow I’ll post the winner of the launch giveaway – the launch is going well, by the way. I’ve been thrilled and humbled by some of the things people have said and written about the book. Later this week I’ll put up a writing-related post I started working on before we left Laos. But for now, I think I hear some ice cream calling my name.

Later, lisa

Dominic and the bloodwood tree we planted to commemorate his birth.
He’s winning this growth race, hands down.

He’s got a way to go to catch the Illawarra Flame tree now, though:

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4 comments

Sandra July 18, 2012 - 8:06 pm

I love that red-haired boy–standing and smiling big for his pic. Yes, babes are uber-hard work. You’re doing it well, Lisa. Keep on keeping on. In about 30 years, when he’s tending his own screamy babe, Dom might say thanks for these seemingly endless days/nights. For now, rely on your parents’ uber-joy in his presence. Love from me.

Lisa July 27, 2012 - 6:35 am

We love him too, and it has been wonderful to spend this time with grandparents!! And, yeah. I suspect having your own kids makes almost everyone more grateful for your own parents.

Danielle July 20, 2012 - 4:01 am

Sandra is right and wise. Rest while you can. And take those photos. when you look back, the smiles will be all you remember. Not the sleepless nights. xox

Lisa July 27, 2012 - 6:34 am

Isn’t it amazing how that works? How quickly the frustration fades?

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